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From Vanilla to Vibrant: A Guide to Introducing Sex Toys into Your Relationship

by Master Ryker 02 Jan 2024 0 Comments

Talking to your partner about using sex toys in the bedroom can be intimidating, but it's an important conversation to have. Here are some tips on how to communicate with your partner about introducing sex toys into your sexual relationship:

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Approach the topic in a positive and non-judgmental way. Emphasize that you want to explore new ways of experiencing pleasure together, rather than implying that something is lacking in your current sexual relationship.

Consider timing and context. Choose a time when both you and your partner are relaxed and open to conversation, and avoid bringing up the topic in the heat of the moment.

Start the conversation by expressing your desire to use sex toys, and then ask for your partner's thoughts and feelings on the matter. Give them space to express any concerns or reservations they may have, and be open to their perspective.


Be specific about what types of sex toys you're interested in exploring, and why. Provide information about the benefits of using sex toys, and emphasize that using them is not a replacement for sexual intimacy with your partner.

Consider taking a trip to a sex toy store together. This can help demystify sex toys and make the conversation more concrete. You may even find that browsing together is a fun and exciting experience that strengthens your bond.

shopping kink anyone?

Shopping Kink anyone?

Take things slow. Introduce sex toys gradually and communicate throughout the process to ensure that both you and your partner are comfortable and enjoying the experience.

Remember that using sex toys is a personal choice, and it's okay if your partner is not interested. It's important to respect each other's boundaries and desires, and to find a compromise that works for both of you.

Introducing sex toys into your sexual relationship can be a fun and exciting way to explore new ways of experiencing pleasure with your partner. By approaching the topic in a positive and non-judgmental way, taking things slow, and being respectful of each other's boundaries and desires, you can have a successful and enjoyable conversation about using sex toys in the bedroom.


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